I said I would give every “match” I have a chance even if the “match” is not really that attractive. After all, I am in this for the experience. Looking back on my younger dating self, before the kids and all – I never went out on a date wherein I don’t feel any form of attraction to.
Date No3 – let’s call him C – is that person. I knew I wasn’t attracted to his photos but I was willing to give it a shot. We might hit it off during coffee.
C and i decided to meet for coffee at a coffee shop inside a bookstore. Both of us came late for coffee and dinner. I had a busy week and so did he so we tried to squeeze in the schedule of our meet up.
I forgot to mention that most of my past relatipnships were long distance – even with that of my ex husband. I am not sure why that is so, i’ll have to dig deeper into this and find out. Commitment issues perhaps?
Going back to C – he’s Irish and is assigned near where I was, so I was thinking that maybe if we hit it off I would not have to worry about the distance.
Unfortunately, we did not. I mean the conversation was good – we never ran out of things to say to each other. But the chemistry was zero. I enjoyed the company – but well there’s just nothing there. I dropped him off at the hippest club in town after. It’s the least that I can do for him paying for the dinner and drinks.
He never sent a text message afterwards. I was not bothered about it as well. I am beginning to change my mindset about this dating / finding love project.